I sat today thinking about attachment in general and the hurt it can create to lose something or someone you are really close to or believe that you will have in your life for ever, it is majorly daunting to think that you are mortal and that at some point change will present itself through transition. Once you become aware of your attachments whether physical, material or spiritual you can begin to notice that all of it has been given to us on loan for this lifetime.....our families, our friends, our loves, our homes, our cars, our pets and our bodies. Sometimes through spiritual contracts we may experience another life with a spirit in the group you have chosen for this lifetime, but the guarantee that the relationship will be the same is none and dependent on whether the karma cycle has completed in that relationship. To accept that your belongings in this lifetime is on loan allows you to step back and give more of yourself and your heart to them, knowing that happiness and joy were the major lessons to perhaps be learnt in addition to forgiveness. To be able to experience relationships whether plutonic or otherwise without judgement, without fear, jealousy or expectations because your focus has gone within and you have accepted life for what it is. To say that I have completed this lesson with all would be far from the truth, I am learning and have succeeded in some instances while in others I take three steps backwards for every one step forward, but the satisfaction and release that I have felt in those that have come to play is exceptional and incredible, to love someone whether a friend or family without all of the attachments and judgement is truly a blessing. To surrender is a gift in itself. Surrender to love, surrender to attachments, surrender to fear, surrender to freedom, just surrender!